I have the ever-so-fun duty of telling my 15 year old daughter that her first boyfriend/love-of-her-life is just not that into her... I just bought her the book of the same title, so she can hear it from a guy from a guy's point of view. I've tried telling her until I'm blue in the face that the fact that he's not asking her out any more, he's not calling any more, he's not even texting any more, he's not spending a dime on her ever, he's not dropping by any more are big red flags... His excuses of always being tired, always being busy and preparing for college are just that - excuses. His being on Facebook and messaging other girls is another big red flag, and when she asks how he can be talking to a girl at school who has it all over Facebook and Instagram that she has the hots for him, he says they are just friends in band and that she's "kinda cool" and that he's going to keep talking to her...
It makes me want to throw up. Their relationship was so cute to watch in the beginning, but since he is very "hot" (as they call it) all the girls throw themselves at him, and it is clear to me that he is enjoying that. And that he wants to see what else is out there. He seems bored and ready for a new girl, not knowing that he has the coolest girl he'll ever find. But it's making her become insecure, and she cries more nights than is happy, so it's time for the "mom talk." Or sister talk. Or whoever she'll listen to talk.
He seemed so nice in the beginning....
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