My personal opinion? The success of the TV show, "Mad Men," is a subconscious desire to return to simpler times. For those of us that remember the 60's and those of us who wish we had been there. I think feminism failed and women want to return to staying home if they want to, if it's even possible. I think that we miss women looking feminine and sexy instead of like unisex droids. We miss men being masculine, and being able to tell a woman that she looks pretty without being blamed that he's sexist. Many schools and workplaces won't even let a man tell a joke without being charged with sexual harrassment.
When it comes down to brass tacks, women and men are wired differently. Boys play with trucks and army guys and girls play with dolls - what a surprise! We need to celebrate our differences, and get back to how we were designed.
Maybe the pendulum is swinging back.
As was said in the 60's, I can dig it!
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
"Make love, not war."
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Monday, August 30, 2010
"You can all go to hell; I'm going to Texas." - Davy Crockett
Yes, it's a Monday and I'm really tired. My quick thought is that the older I get, the more I love Texas. Since visiting California since I was 12, I had always wanted to live there. The weather is such paradise. But when I really think about it, of course, I wouldn't want to be that far from family. And when I close my eyes and visualize, it's just not me. There's a 'can-do' spirit in Texas that you really can't find anywhere else. I mean adventurous people settled this land, many of them 'outlaws,' of which some of my relatives fall in this category. I know when I spent a month in Connecticut, it felt like I was in a different country. People down here just are fun, and loud, and daring and adventurous and well, smarter than the rest of the country. We just have more common sense. We're hardier. We fight for what we believe in. We're the most like the original people that came to America for freedom.
I'm finally happy with where I'm at.
And God bless Texas...
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Sunday, August 29, 2010
"I have a dream..."
It's been a stressful weekend, but my 'hope' is that 'change' is coming... I am VERY encouraged from Glenn Beck's rally in DC yesterday. Thank God that so many were willing to go and make a stand for righteousness. Glenn seems to really care about this nation. He knows inherently that only God can change the heart of Americans and our country's direction. He's on the 'front lines' of this social war, and is taking metaphorical bullets for us.
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Saturday, August 28, 2010
"You deserve a break today, at McDonald's."
Somewhere we lost our way... we lost our moral compass.
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Friday, August 27, 2010
WTHeck Fridays
Out of Australia this week comes a story that a woman had twins prematurely at 27 weeks, one of which the doctors declared dead after 20 minutes of trying to get him to breathe. The parents were, of course, devastated and asked to hold him to tell him goodbye. The mother took all of his clothes off and layed him on her, and kept hugging him, touching him and talking to him. After two hours, he made a gasp, but the doctors said it was a reflex. But then the startled mother fed him a little breast milk from her finger and he started breathing normally. A short time later the baby opened his eyes. The doctor was in disbelief. Her son is now 5 months old and fully recovered. "Kangaroo care" is recommended for preemies for speedier help.
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Thursday, August 26, 2010
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
"I never shot nobody I didn't have to." - John Wayne
I miss real men.... I watched a John Wayne western on Saturday and I didn't want to leave. It was so simple. Good guys vs. bad guys. With real men. And feminine women. I miss that. I'm tired of effeminate men and masculine women. The whole world is turned upside down. I miss the simplicity of life. Back in the days portrayed by westerns, life was a lot simpler. There are too many electronics now. Too much traffic. Too much chaos. Too many wienies.
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Tuesday, August 24, 2010
"Sometimes there just aren't enough rocks." - Forrest Gump
Well, that's exactly how I feel today. Defeated. I didn't win the battle today, but I plan on winning the war... It all gets overwhelming. When will relief come?
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Monday, August 23, 2010
"An army of one..."
Where are the good role models for my 13 year old?? It's reported today that Miley Cyrus is filming a movie with Demi Moore as her mother, as a pot-smoking, virginity losing, bisexually curious teen... Wow. You know we all don't live in California where that is normal.My daughter has grown up watching Disney's "Hannah Montana." It has now run it's course, and she doesn't even like Miley Cyrus any more, but this movie is going to influence so many young girls (and even boys.) It says all of this is okay if Miley Cyrus even plays the part, and don't EVEN argue with me about that one. I also read today that Selena Gomez is sick of being called a 'good girl.' She says it's false any way. Great... What is it with Disney kids and going wacko? Britney Spears is the poster child for that one, with Lindsay Lohan as a close second. I can only think of Hilary Duff as having turned out pretty decent. I mean seriously, Disney should realize they have a problem. A big problem. Whatever they are doing needs to be changed. These kids need to be helped with Life Coaches, or SOMETHING. It's almost expected now that this has happened to so many.
What happened to innocence? Kids these days see so many sexual images in media that they have these early expectations that prior generations never had. It's gotten worse even over the last ten years.
Well, it's up to us to 'just say no.' If we don't watch this stuff, or buy this stuff, it will go away.
It's got to start with us.
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Sunday, August 22, 2010
"Life is God's novel. Let Him write it."
You have a choice, either you can write your novel, or you can leave it for God. I know I tried most of my life to write my own, but to no avail... I came to a point where I just couldn't do it anymore. I made a mess of my life, and have regrets I will have for the rest of my life. We all will reap what we sow. Period. It's a law you cannot change. And if you mess up, God will forgive you, but there will still be consequences. It's the law...
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Saturday, August 21, 2010
Friday, August 20, 2010
WTHeck Fridays - eye for an eye
True story.... reporting today in Saudi Arabia that the man who ACCIDENTALLY paralyzed another man, might have to have HIS spine broken to paralyze him, due to Islamic law based on the ancient code, 'eye for an eye.' This, after his other sentence of seven months in prison.
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Thursday, August 19, 2010
"It's hotter than a rolex from Vinnie on the corner."
It's hot here in Texas. Real hot. And when we get in the 'Dog Days of Summer,' no one wants to do anything but go inside and talk about how hot it is. It's how I suppose it is in Colorado in January, as we get 'cabin fever,' only for the opposite reason. I'm in sales, so I have to go out in the morning to talk to people because by the afternoon, all of my client's eyes glaze over, and they are cranky and just say no to everything. The grass is crunchy and no amount of watering seems to quench the thirst. In August our only hope for a little cooler weather is a hurricane or tropical storm in the Gulf, but this year we've only had two, and they hit the bottom tip of Texas early summer. So much for the weather experts - they said it would be an active hurricane season this year in the Gulf.
I want THAT job, where you can be totally wrong most of the time and not get fired...
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Wednesday, August 18, 2010
"We the people, in order to form a more perfect union..."
Yes, I'm going to weigh in on the prospective mosque at Ground Zero. THIS IS COMMON SENSE PEOPLE!!!
Hello!? The radical Islamists attacked Americans by hijacking 3 jets and flew them into the tallest buildings in the U.S., the World Trade Center and also Pentagon but were foiled in the 4th jet heading for the White House.
Most Americans with any sense view the area where the World Trade Center as sacred ground, much as we view the area of Pearl Harbor when we were attacked by the Japanese. To allow the same religion to build a mosque IN THE SAME AREA is preposterous!! They have said they want to name it the "Cordoba" Center. Cordoba, in Islamic symbolic terms, means Islamic rule in the West, not "coexistence" as some will tell you.
As my co-worker said, this is like building a KKK center (which we, of course, abhor) on Obama's childhood home.
This is insulting, anyway you slice it...
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Tuesday, August 17, 2010
"Fly the Friendly Skies with United"
Remember the old advertising slogan, "Fly the Friendly Skies with United?" Well, evidently they're not so friendly lately. Maybe it's the heat, maybe it's the economy, or maybe it's all the rules about flying, but airline passengers have never been as unruly as they have this summer. We had the rude passenger on JetBlue that prompted Steven Slater to chunk his job, and quit in a blaze of glory. The next day, JetBlue had another rude passenger, and had to land early. Today we hear about a mother of a one year old flying from Dallas to Albuquerque, who slapped her child, so they took the baby away from her for the rest of the flight. The way I understand it, it wasn't a spanking but a slap, with the insinuation that it was on the face? (Aren't most slaps in the face?)
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Monday, August 16, 2010
"In America, we're free to do what we want until we infringe on someone else's rights."
In Dearborn, Michigan, a Detroit suburb known as the capital of Arab-America, a high school football team is holding football practices from 11 pm to 4 am. They are doing this for the predominantly muslim team players who are in Ramadan, and fast in the daytime. Rami Fakih, a wide receiver for the team, and brother of the new Miss USA, Rima Fakih, said it has taken some adjustments. He remembers he can drink during practice, rather than holding back, since it's night time. I've also read stories that muslims that worked for Dell Computers, asked that they could stop at work and pray to Mecca. And, there is discussion in New York City of building a mosque on the sacred ground of where radical muslims murdered over 3,000 innocent people on 9-11.
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Sunday, August 15, 2010
"What's in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet."
I come from the generation where the girl's names are Debbie, Nancy, Kathy, Laurie, Linda, Melissa, Becky, Cindy, Susan, Judy, Pam, Janet.... you get the idea. Names are a funny thing. When we were naming our older two children, we thought we were being so unusual. My son was born first in Dallas, and as we sat gazing at him in the nursery, we stood next to a couple who had been in our lamaze class. We asked what they had. A boy (just like us.) We asked what day. Yesterday (just like us.) We asked his first name. Same as us... We asked his middle name. Same as us! And, at the time, this name was very unusual. So much so, that at work, they asked, "Is that a family name?" in the tone that says 'yuck.' Two years later, my daughter was born, and again, we thought we were so unusual. When she went to a large Texas university, HALF the girls on her dorm hall had the same name. And I am NOT exaggerating... Evidently, the same happened with my parents in naming me. Yet with my older sister, she got the good name. The name that I've never heard anyone have my whole life. And no one EVER forgets her name. It's adorable. It has gotten her in doors. It has gotten her scholarship money. Her name alone really did help make her 'popular.' She was homecoming queen at our high school. It's a great name.
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Saturday, August 14, 2010
"Purpose is what gives life a meaning."
We're all put here on earth for a purpose, and are given talents and abilities to do specific jobs. My son, Bubba, would make a great attorney. He can argue his point, where you just can't argue with him anymore. I probably wouldn't recommend a more stressful end of law, but maybe real estate law, or one he feels passionate about. I also think he would be great working in rehab or with special needs folks, as he is very patient and kind with the less fortunate. My oldest daughter Alex is Type A, very organized and beautiful. I could really see her owning a bridal shop, since she's always cared a lot for fashion, and would be excellent in this field. She could work with friends that are wedding coordinators, and it's a business that will always survive. She also excelled in photography, and has a keen eye for that. My youngest, DD, is destined for the arts. She's already an excellent writer, dancer or possible artist. She too has an artist's eye for computer graphics and it comes easy for her. She doesn't want an 8-5 office job, so she needs to move into the arts. My friend P. also has a good eye for photography, and would make a great videographer (maybe for older daughter's wedding business) or photographer. He started out in college in film & television, and regrets getting out for sales. Maybe now's the time. My son-in-law is a great cook, with a fun personality and would be fabulous in the catering business - he too can be a part of the wedding coordination.
It's God that finds us the jobs, we don't have to worry about the economy. God is still on the throne and still has a purpose for our lives, in spite of the Great Recession.
Let's do what we were created to do...
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Friday, August 13, 2010
WTHeck Fridays - another vacation
Yes, I'm still ripping off Sassy's WTF Fridays only cleaner...)
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Thursday, August 12, 2010
"We can't all be heroes, because somebody has to sit on the curb and applaud when they go by." - Will Rogers
Wow, in one of the best "Take this job and shove it" moments in recent history, Steven Slater has captured the heart of overworked Americans. With most of us doing tons more work for way less money, Slater's action was vicarious to people like me, who can only fantasize about going out in a blaze of glory. Almost everyone I know is overworked and underpaid, and I'm not blaming it on all the bosses, as they are now dealing with the 'powers that be' - as Bush's tax cuts are phasing out, and huge Obamacare costs are phasing in. I liken it to the child's game, "musical chairs," where they march around a circle of chairs to music, and when the song stops, another chair has been pulled out of the game, and everyone scrambles to find a chair. The country is in slow-motion free fall, and this administration keeps making the polar opposite choice of what is best for business in America.
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Wednesday, August 11, 2010
"Men are only as loyal as their options."
OMG! I do feel terribly sorry for Bristol Palin because she will be tied to this horrid 'Baby Daddy' for the rest of her life... Granted, she was really young when she got pregnant, and I'm sure his good looks were all she could see.
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Tuesday, August 10, 2010
"I am my own experiment. I am my own work of art." - Madonna Ciccone
Here is Stephani Germanotta in 2005, looking like someone you'd see anywhere in the U.S.
Fast forward to this week, after the transformation of Stephani into "Lady GaGa," trying to outdo herself with wackiness.
Clearly she has fashioned herself after Madonna, with costumes you won't soon forget. Both are Italian heritage, raised Catholic with a penchant for pushing the envelope.
She also went to Catholic schools, oddly, the same one as Paris Hilton.
Seems she'll do almost anything for attention...
And we have to ask ourselves, how is this young woman so popular? She sings pretty well, but then so do thousands more. Just two to three years ago, she was still an unknown to most. But she has transformed herself into an icon with the bazaar clothes and antics. There have been those before her. Cher comes to mind in the 70's with the Vegas showgirl types of costumes. Of course, Madonna as well. But we all watch in some sort of voyeur way, like we are waiting for her bazaarness to entertain us. What WILL she do next? Her drama captivates and intoxicates. Her pc views are the Hollywood way.
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Monday, August 9, 2010
"God could not be everywhere, so He created mothers."
It's been a long Monday with lots of drama and crummy news. So I'm trying to think of something positive with all of the bad news out there....
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Sunday, August 8, 2010
Snarky Sunday
Fashion Police say: The prince and woman on right look classy and very rich. The other 3? Not so much... What's with the First Lady and her daughter's silver and gold shoes? Their outfits are embarressing. And Princess Sophia? All that money and she chooses that outfit?! WTH?
Hmmm.... Lady GaGa looks like she's in Sodom & Gomorrah.... and liking it
Wow - his moobs are bigger than most of my friends
Brody is a complete goober.... He gets a mohawk and an "A" branded on his head for Avril?
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"To be humble to superiors is duty, to equals courtesy, to inferiors nobleness." - Benjamin Franklin
Well, since I am in big need of money, a lady from church asked me and my youngest if we would like to help out yesterday for a venue she and her husband own that holds (mostly) weddings. This is a Godsend, as we are hurting. We worked 10 hours yesterday to set up for the wedding, serve the dinner and drinks, cut the cake, and then clean up. Whew!
And we live in Texas, and it was an afternoon wedding with 100 degrees! The wedding was half indoors and half outdoors. They arrived for appetizers indoors, bar was outdoors, and dinner was in a tent outdoors, then back indoors (when it was cooler) for dancing. We almost ran out of ice since we poured ice water the entire time.
The bride and groom were darling, and the guests were all great. I think the older guests felt sorry for me, as the lone Baby Boomer working with 9 other teenagers, kind of like I feel sorry for the old guys that are greeters at Wal-Mart. But hey, we're all thankful for the money we can make in these oppressive days.
As servers, we had to wear black pants, black shoes, and they provided the man's white button-down shirt, the man's tie, and a black apron. We looked very official. And I never realized how 'servant' you feel in these clothes, almost invisible. Half the people don't even notice you. It's very strange to watch all these people dressed up, having fun, eating, drinking and dancing, while you cater to them. It felt very 'Cinderella,' like they were the lucky ones, and I'm trying to survive.
I found myself striking up conversations with the guests since I'm in sales in my 'real' life, and then they seemed surprised that the 'help' was talking to them, yet were still nice. Then I'd catch myself, and try to blend in the background. I found the older folks nicer than the younger, as the latter seemed to want to order me around. But I signed up for this, so okay...
The band was awesome - best wedding band I've ever heard. I wanted to dance! Have fun! Cut loose! But, alas, I could not. I'm a paid worker. After we finished, and all sat there completely exhausted from 9 hours on our feet with no breaks, we changed out of our sweaty clothes and waited for paychecks. Once we got back in our regular clothes, we all seemed to get our personalities back and felt human again. Got home by midnight, with throbbing feet.
Now that I've worked 'the other side,' I'll be extra nice to anyone who ever waits on me again...
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Saturday, August 7, 2010
"If you can dream it - you can do it." - Walt Disney
Most of these self help books tell you to have a dream board. You have to visualize what you want. You have to look at it often. You have to imagine yourself there or having what you want. You have to make it happen in your head first. Then the dream will start to happen. Disney dreamed it. He drew it. And it started happening. Let's do it too!!
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Friday, August 6, 2010
Thursday, August 5, 2010
"God created Adam & Eve, not Adam & Steve..."
Okay, let's get this straight... In 2000, California passed Proposition 22 which was to honor marriages only between opposite-sex couples. In May 2008, it was struck down by the California Supreme Court as contrary to the state constitution. In November 2008, Proposition 8 passed in California which provided that "only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." Same sex couples and government entities filed numerous lawsuits with the California Supreme Court challenging the proposition's validity.
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Wednesday, August 4, 2010
"Your birthday is a special time to celebrate the gift of 'you' to the world."
Today is President Obama's birthday.
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